IT'S TIME TO FREEKIN LOVE YOURESELF
We are a generation of inspo-addicts and wisdom junkies! We are thirsty for knowledge, deep insight, and spiritual rescue remedies. We are slowly becoming self aware and self empowered- and in our search for a better self and a better future, we sometimes forget that with power comes responsibility.
A topic very close to my heart is negative self esteem and body image- an issue of pandemic proportions. How do so many women end up with such drastically deficient self worth? Who glorified martyrdom, self loathing, suppression, submission, self denial and shame?
The answer is historically complex, however the spiritual truth is that women carry the wounds of the their mothers and their mothers and their mothers etc, - each time passing down an increasingly expansive and convincing file of proof in the cellular memory that it is not SAFE to love oneself, it is not safe to speak up, be authentic, be confident, shine bright, express your needs, stand your ground.
It's a fact that we are ALL a product of our conditioning and our parents are no different. For thousands of years, humanity has been procreating under the limited consciousness of the past generations without question or review ...so what do we expect?! Of course there will be big imprints to heal, to neutralise and dissolve. Of course every woman will need to be born into this world and be required to unlearn self hate and learn self love.
There are a plethora of compounded negative imprints embedded into the female anima psyche that are still playing havoc with our sense of personal power - holding us hostage to an illusion of low self worth, insecurity and powerlessness. It breaks my heart every time I hear a woman confess that she thinks she is not enough, unattractive, or hideous.
The wonderful news is that a revolution is stirring and many women are downloading and integrating new energetic codes which are upgrading their consciousness! Women in every corner of the globe are waking up and rejecting media madness, masculine dominance and mass manipulation. Many are taking advantage of their new found freedom, rights and knowledge and are stepping inwards to take stock of their limiting mentality - finally deciding to give the old program the flick.
Much of the soul coaching practices I prescribe to my female clients are centered on helping them 'unlearn' the eons of inherited negative conditioning, and empowering them to develop divine confidence. I remind them that they may have been encoded with loads of ancestral junk but they have also been encoded with a tremendous amount of power, light and strength.
I have an intimate knowledge of this inner battle and am therefore personally invested in shaking things up. It is a thread of my personal psyche that I have had to continually work on and transmute and reorganise. It is also a huge issue with a person who is close to me and for whom I feel deeply sad and terrified for. I see how entrapped she is in self destructive patterns and I feel totally helpless watching the relentless self-abuse.